I fumbled for the bedside clock; the numbers floated into place. 6:00 am. Too early to call my sister Michelle, who lived in California, where her clock was reading 4:00 AM.
A dream woke me up. Michelle and I sat at a table in front of a sidewalk cafe. Between us, another Michelle—a misty replica of the original. We were leaning in, old friends whispering secrets.
Michelle would know what the dream meant. She was a minister and spiritual counselor.
Beyond my curiosity, I was also worried. I had phoned her the week before, but ended up with her voice mail. I’d left a message, then another, to no avail. I worried the ghostly figure meant she was ill. Or worse.
I stumbled down to the kitchen to grab a bowl of cereal and a glass of milk.
My favorite photo was taped to the fridge. Michelle and me, nine and five, dressed up for Easter Sunday, posed side by side on our grandmother’s porch. A black and white picture, but I remembered the day in full color. Michelle wore a hot pink circle skirt, a white stripe at the hem, pale pink bolero. I wore a navy satin dress with fuzzy white polka dots, a white bonnet perched on the back of my head, its navy ribbon tied under my chin. We carried identical purses, mine swinging as I held it a arm’s length. Michele’s dangling from hands clasped in front of her, a lady.
We cock our heads toward each other, but there’s a space between us wide enough to squeeze in a third girl. I’m a kid, mugging for our grandmother, who took the picture. My legs point in one direction, my torso in another. Michelle is heir to the throne. Like someone who’s practiced for eons. She knew how to hold a purse, how to be still, where to direct her attention. I smile with a squint, She smiles wih an aura.
Even in a faded photo, her presence comforted.
At 7:00 AM, impatience got the better of me. Michelle answered on the first ring. I was so startled, I forgot I was calling to make sure she wasn’t dead.
Of course there had been a logical reason she hadn’t called me back—she’d spent the holidays out of town with her daughter and grandbabies. I began to doubt the dream had any meaning at all. I was foolish for taking it seriously.
I cleared my throat. “Uhh … Michelle … I had the weirdest dream about you. Maybe you know what it means.”
I waited to see if she would laugh. She didn’t. “So … well … there were two of you, a regular you and this ghostly you, and it seemed, uh, normal, and we were all just talking, and, well, it didn’t make sense.”
“It does make sense. There are two me’s.”
I was startled by the speed of her response, like answering the phone on the first ring.
She said, “You know I help people contact loved ones who’ve crossed over. And that’s a different Michelle than the one who’s here the rest of the time.”
Because she rarely brought it up and never shared any details, I’d paid little attention to this aspect of her life. I interacted with the Michelle who worked, shopped, and spent the holidays with great-grandbabies.
She said, “Nobody likes to talk about it, though. I feel kind of lonely. Every once in a while someone at work will ask me to contact a loved one, but our family pretty much ignores it. Maybe it scares them.”
I angled the phone closer to my ear.
“In a way,” she said, “I feel validated by your dream.”
I remember … when I was in high school and college and way too self-referential to notice deeply … I recall a general negative tone around our house, regarding Michelle’s spiritual leanings. Our parents regarded her mentor, Mama Pat, with suspicion. They hinted at sinister motives, like Mama Pat was a voodoo priestess leading Michelle down a path of debauchery. In truth, it was a path of awakening. Michelle was learning to listen to her guides. Identifying the kundalini energy that raced through her body. Recognizing miracles. Speaking to the Divine through music.
Michelle and I talked for an hour, me in my kitchen and she curled up in her bed. I was a visitor in her secret world, spellbound. I opened up to the Michele I’d made invisible, privileged to be the one who broke her loneliness.
I became self-conscious about my needless worry and mindful of the two-hour time difference. “Sorry I got you up so early.”
“Actually, you didn’t. I woke up at four and couldn’t get back to sleep.”
The same time I woke up from the dream.
A dream woke me up. Michelle and I sat at a table in front of a sidewalk cafe. Between us, another Michelle—a misty replica of the original. We were leaning in, old friends whispering secrets.
Michelle would know what the dream meant. She was a minister and spiritual counselor.
Beyond my curiosity, I was also worried. I had phoned her the week before, but ended up with her voice mail. I’d left a message, then another, to no avail. I worried the ghostly figure meant she was ill. Or worse.
I stumbled down to the kitchen to grab a bowl of cereal and a glass of milk.
My favorite photo was taped to the fridge. Michelle and me, nine and five, dressed up for Easter Sunday, posed side by side on our grandmother’s porch. A black and white picture, but I remembered the day in full color. Michelle wore a hot pink circle skirt, a white stripe at the hem, pale pink bolero. I wore a navy satin dress with fuzzy white polka dots, a white bonnet perched on the back of my head, its navy ribbon tied under my chin. We carried identical purses, mine swinging as I held it a arm’s length. Michele’s dangling from hands clasped in front of her, a lady.
We cock our heads toward each other, but there’s a space between us wide enough to squeeze in a third girl. I’m a kid, mugging for our grandmother, who took the picture. My legs point in one direction, my torso in another. Michelle is heir to the throne. Like someone who’s practiced for eons. She knew how to hold a purse, how to be still, where to direct her attention. I smile with a squint, She smiles wih an aura.
Even in a faded photo, her presence comforted.
At 7:00 AM, impatience got the better of me. Michelle answered on the first ring. I was so startled, I forgot I was calling to make sure she wasn’t dead.
Of course there had been a logical reason she hadn’t called me back—she’d spent the holidays out of town with her daughter and grandbabies. I began to doubt the dream had any meaning at all. I was foolish for taking it seriously.
I cleared my throat. “Uhh … Michelle … I had the weirdest dream about you. Maybe you know what it means.”
I waited to see if she would laugh. She didn’t. “So … well … there were two of you, a regular you and this ghostly you, and it seemed, uh, normal, and we were all just talking, and, well, it didn’t make sense.”
“It does make sense. There are two me’s.”
I was startled by the speed of her response, like answering the phone on the first ring.
She said, “You know I help people contact loved ones who’ve crossed over. And that’s a different Michelle than the one who’s here the rest of the time.”
Because she rarely brought it up and never shared any details, I’d paid little attention to this aspect of her life. I interacted with the Michelle who worked, shopped, and spent the holidays with great-grandbabies.
She said, “Nobody likes to talk about it, though. I feel kind of lonely. Every once in a while someone at work will ask me to contact a loved one, but our family pretty much ignores it. Maybe it scares them.”
I angled the phone closer to my ear.
“In a way,” she said, “I feel validated by your dream.”
I remember … when I was in high school and college and way too self-referential to notice deeply … I recall a general negative tone around our house, regarding Michelle’s spiritual leanings. Our parents regarded her mentor, Mama Pat, with suspicion. They hinted at sinister motives, like Mama Pat was a voodoo priestess leading Michelle down a path of debauchery. In truth, it was a path of awakening. Michelle was learning to listen to her guides. Identifying the kundalini energy that raced through her body. Recognizing miracles. Speaking to the Divine through music.
Michelle and I talked for an hour, me in my kitchen and she curled up in her bed. I was a visitor in her secret world, spellbound. I opened up to the Michele I’d made invisible, privileged to be the one who broke her loneliness.
I became self-conscious about my needless worry and mindful of the two-hour time difference. “Sorry I got you up so early.”
“Actually, you didn’t. I woke up at four and couldn’t get back to sleep.”
The same time I woke up from the dream.
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